Everyone is familiar with the show 16 and pregnant (if not follow the link under my "Check this out" area), during the 2nd season there were teenage a few fathers that were in their children's life and some were not… Read the article under additional information about the teenage male view of teen pregnancy. Then answer this....
Do you think teenage males are affected more by teenage pregnancy or just the same as the teenage female?
Why do you think some teenage fathers feel that it is not their responsibility to raise their own child and that they still have the right to be just a child?
Do you think parenting classes would change the thought process of a soon to be teenage father, so that he can know what to expect?
No, teenage males are not more affected than females because I think females have to give up alot more than males do. But I think that once some males find out that they are going to be a father they are more shocked than the female is. Alot of them dont even think about the consequences when having sex without a condom. They NEVER think about the "what if's". I think it scares them to even talk about things like that.
ReplyDeleteI really cant answer this question because Im not sure myself. But some guys are not men yet. They are still basically little boys trying to act like grown men by having sex and when the baby comes, they freak out.
No. I think that will scare them even more!
Males are effected just the same as females because they both are responsible for the results of their actions together.
ReplyDeleteSome teenage fathers are not mature enough to raise a child. They do not grasp on the fact that as a "child" they made an "adult" decision to have sex and the result of their decision to do so was the production of a child. I feel that if you can make an adult decision to have sex with someone then you have the responsibility as an adult to raise your child. Teen fathers just as well as teen mothers need to realize that the childhood that they had before they got pregnant or got someone pregnant is gone. There is no childhood for you when you make an adult decision to bring a baby into this world.
I think parenting classes as well as sex education classes would be very beneficial to the teenage father. The sex education class will give them a full understanding of everything they need to know about sex, but I do think the class should include the subject of emotions as it pertains to sex.
I think parenting classes should be included in this process also. I took a Family Consumer Science class and we had the a project where we took the baby infants home. Luckily, I was granted the role as a single father for a week with the infant. While doing this project, I did have a part time job and football practice after school. I had to find a babysitter for my child (which turned out to be my mom), feed it, change it, stay up all hours of the night and everything you can think of. Along with that, I had to keep up with my school work. THIS WAS THE HARDEST WEEK OF MY LIFE. And I did not want to do it again or see what it is like to have a child in real life as a teen.
I think that teenagers who are becoming parents as well as other students who are not parents should have a chance to participate in a take home project like I did becausse it would show teens how hard it is to tke care of a child by yourself and make them really think about the choices they make for their future.
I do not feel that teenage males are affected by teenage pregnancy as much as teenage females. It is evident by the numberous amount of teenage males that have multiple children by multiple females. I feel the saying, "Mama's baby, Papa's maybe" is seen all too often. Majority of the time, the teenage female and her parents are left to take care of their grandchild because by the time the teenage female deliver, the teenage male is long gone and has moved on to the next teenage female.
ReplyDeleteI feel that teenage males have the attitude their child is not their responsibility because they are immature and lack the understanding of their actions. Teenage males are immature and not ready for responsibilities.
I do believe parenting classes for males could help. I think it depends on the maturity level of the soon to be father and their family values. Some teenage males cannot relate to a father and son relationship or the responsibilities because they lack a father in their own lives.
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